I arrange to do culturally stimulating things in the evenings or weekends like seeing a concert/opera, going to an art gallery or a movie. The rest of the time I'm pouring effort into my career or long term relationship, which are both rewarding in the long term. Sometimes I like "switch-off" entertainment like sports when I've got a free schedule.
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Fear of death
My wife and my son, my hobbies, and also Bob's Burgers, Psych and Community.
Love and hope. I want to live a good life and I want my family to live good lives too.
Bees¹, birds², leaves, oat milk, new jokes, hateful music, ugliness of a dead body, desire³, spite⁴, sonder...
¹Inheritance Cycle reference
²Coots and seagulls and crows
³What you desire is what you lose in death, because your dead.
⁴Pick someone dead you don't like and laugh that you're alive and they have to decompose.
Love for my family and friends, mostly. Aside from that, spite for the things that want me dead.