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Study reveals some teens receive 5,000 notifications daily, most spend almost two hours on TikTok | Kids officially don't like Facebook::undefined

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[–] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 69 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

probably from all those people
who can't form a single sentence
without hitting "send"
every two words

[–] dependencyInjection@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I heard it coined as they use the send button as punctuation.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago

Mhm, I’ll absolutely do this sometimes, as a stylistic choice. I usually type and text with perfect spelling and punctuation (at least as close to perfect as my brain can get!)

Sometimes, typing in a punctuation-free or texting in a rapid manner like that can make a message come across the way it sounds in my mind.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I kinda need to do this with my dad, otherwise he doesn’t notice texts. For example he texts me “Buy that spread for €0.79”. “Hazelnut or cocoa?” which if I don’t follow with ~5 question marks, he won’t even notice.

[–] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

I mean, it's understandable in cases like those, but when you tell a story that doesn't require an immediate answer and you end up sending 20 notifications instead of putting it in one longer message, it's more than annoying.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] Fal@yiffit.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One day he will be gone, and you will give anything to have one more call with him.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Call? What's wrong with you?

[–] RamSwamson@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I recently started dating again and noticed a lot of people do this now it’s very annoying.

[–] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've got one person doing that in my work group chat. I've got Buzzkill installed for the sole purpose of muting the chat for five minutes whenever they send a message in order to avoid my watch constantly vibrating for two minutes.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

TIL about Buzzlill. Holy shit. I could probably do the same thing with Tasker but I'll happily pay $4 so I don't have to.

[–] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

it can also be plugged into Tasker :) you can set conditions to run Tasker profiles, for example. just saying.

[–] newIdentity@sh.itjust.works -5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What's the disadvantage? I really only see advantages.

So here's an example:


you: hey

you: are you free right now?

other: nah. Sorry

other: but I shold have time around 17:00.

you: Ok. Call me when you're done. It's kinda important

other: Ok


The first message introduces a conversation followed by a follow up. As soon as you send the first message it's easier to send the second one too since you already introduced the conversation.

The other person then answers with a short answer where they don't really have to think about what they write and how they write it. You instantly get an answer.

[–] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

What's the disadvantage?

https://nohello.net/en/

A: hey (my watch vibrates once)
A: are you free right now? (my watch vibrates again)
B: nah. Sorry (their phone plays the sound once)
B: but I shold have time around 17:00. (their phone plays the sound again)

as opposed to:

A: hey, are you free right now? (one vibration)
B: nah, sorry, but I should have time around 17:00 (one sound played)

[–] flames5123@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The amount of times I’ve had to send this to other developers is infuriating. I’ll wait 5 mins for them to send the part after “hey.” I’m not replying back without an inquiry. I’ve got work to do.

I don't bother responding to 'hey' messages either. Tell me what you need.

[–] Critical_Insight@feddit.uk 4 points 1 year ago

My friends in a group chat sometimes have something to ask me so they be like: 'Hey, Critical_Insight?' - to which I two hours later reply: 'Yeah?' and then maybe an hour later I get the actual question and an hour from that I reply to it. If they instead would've just asked the question in the first message, I then would have answered to in in my first reply, and then be done with it. Maybe it's just me, but I see that as waste of everyones time.