Probably going to get incredibly downvoted for this, but this is entirely overblown and unnecessary. Dude just turned 21, he’s barely older than the girl, and these things are totally normal around the world (boy being a few years older than the girl even though she isn’t 18 yet). It’s just in America that you would see such an overreaction for this and like it or not it’s not something incredibly controversial anywhere else… Also given what we know about them meeting in a bar and her posting everywhere about it, what wrong did he exactly do?