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"Some people say light is waves, and some say it's particles, so I bet light is some in-between thing that's both wave and particle depending on how you look at it. Am I right?" "YES, BUT YOU SHOULDN'T BE!"

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[–] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 27 points 8 months ago (31 children)

As a middle ground kind of guy, I would like to pre-emptively state that a lot of us don't actually think the answer is always the middle ground between two stances. It's just that we're more likely to propose a middle ground solution because we evaluate the plausibility of both stances in a more balanced way (as opposed to existing-stance-holders who are prone to bias towards their own stance.) When the two seem roughly equal in plausibility (which happens fairly often, otherwise the argument would be more one-sided,) that's an indication to evaluate the middle ground as well.

Middle ground folks are often caricaturized as wanting to find the middle ground between an objectively sensible point A and a radically wrong point B, when the spectrum of opinions is sort of like [ - - - - - A - | - - - - - - B ]. In that caricature, we're looking for a middle ground at point C [ - - - - - A - | - - C - - - B ], when in actuality we're evaluating (and not automatically accepting) something two or three steps closer to A. In some such cases, A might already be the most sensible middle ground.

[–] ForgotAboutDre@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (8 children)

Middle of the ground people are mostly cowards too scared of conflict, or devoid of insight.

[–] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 36 points 8 months ago (7 children)

Maybe there's a middle ground between our two views.

[–] riskable@programming.dev 2 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Why are you so scared of conflict?

[–] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm not scared of conflict, I'm averse to needless conflict. I may get involved in a conflict for the purpose of breaking it up, or I may initiate a conflict for a good cause such as combating hatred and averting future conflicts - if I feel it'd be productive.

[–] riskable@programming.dev 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Great reply but... I was being facetious; making fun of the guy you were replying to 😁

[–] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago
[–] WhiteHawk@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Why waste your time fighting when there's a solution everyone is happy with?

[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

More likely a solution nobody is happy with but everyone can live with. Your point stands though.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.de 3 points 8 months ago

"compromise is when all sides are unhappy"

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