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And when did you / the person you know realize he was scammed?

What tips do you have for people who haven’t lived this, so they don’t fall for it?

How long till they start asking for money?

What sites do scammers use? Can it be a facebook group or is it only limited to dating sites?

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[–] sailingbythelee@lemmy.world 20 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I know a guy who got one of those Russian "mail order" brides. They had a kid together and then she divorced him as soon as she became a citizen, leaving the kid with him. She married some other guy eventually and still sees the kid, but she doesn't pay child support. My friend comes from a traditional Asian culture and is significantly older than her. The sad thing is that he was shocked when she left, since they got along fine. I don't think it was a scam exactly. More of a transactional relationship and she no doubt felt that she held up her end of the bargain for a reasonable enough amount of time (about 5 years, if I recall) and gave my friend a child on top of the marriage.

[–] aasatru@kbin.earth 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I guess technically that's neither romance nor a scam. Still messed up in more ways than one.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Would depend on the visa.