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I regret something and could use some advice on how to move past it. Recently, I was browsing YouTube and saw a comment from someone asking for help removing a stuck ring because their finger had swelled in the morning. I responded with a possible solution. A few minutes later, I deleted that comment and reposted the same advice, but this time, I also asked them to record and upload a video of the ring removal attempt.

Unfortunately, by the time I added the request to record, they had already seen my first comment and used the method I suggested. It took them one hour in total to remove the ring. I was really looking forward to seeing a video of the process because no existing videos are that long (most are around 30 minutes at most). They even mentioned they had a tool that could have easily recorded the attempt, so I missed a great opportunity to see this interesting and lengthy ring removal.

Now, I feel such regret because I had control over the situation but still wasted this chance. I know it is trivial in the grand scheme of things since it is just for entertainment, but I cannot help but feel disappointed. Asking the person to get their ring stuck again just to record it is obviously not an option, so I will never be able to see that footage.

Since this did not really affect my life in a major way, the usual advice on how to get rid of regret might not be as effective. How do I move past this feeling of missing out on something that could have been really interesting to watch?

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[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Sound slike you're young? You're going to miss a shit ton more of these kind of opportunities. You're going to have to learn to deal with it and learn from it so that you don't make the same mistake next time.

Opportunities aren't rare, but theyre not common either. It's best to seize as many as you can to get as much out of life as you can.

[–] DayOk2@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Okay, but the thing is that while I also had other regrets, they were lessened after waiting. This however, seems like it is not going to lessen at all. Even if it seems like the regret disappeared, it comes back after one or a few days. My question is how to deal exactly with missed opportunities.

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 9 points 4 months ago

All you can do is learn from your mistakes and do better next time. That's what mistakes are for, to learn. Without mistakes, you don't learn.