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My last ex. Found out too late that she has Borderline Personality Disorder.
Towards the end of the relationship, I would randomly wake up at nights with her standing over me, waiting for me to wake up so she could scream at me.
I hope she got the help she needs, but that was awful.
As someone with BPD.. what the fuck lol
I wish I knew! I tried to be as supportive as possible, but they would go from “I love you more than anything” to “I hate you” so quickly.
I see you've met my ex wife