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A Boring Dystopia

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I grew up pre-internet and only embraced it at uni, early www time. I grew up not having a mobile phone because they didn't exist, went to the local (crappy) library if I wanted a map of the world or to do any form of research. Things most people today can do it seconds involved having to get up, go out, and interact with people one way or another.

I rushed out one day and forgot my phone and headphones. I got about 40m away before realising and thought 'meh'. Didn't make any difference to my day.

I look at what I do today, and even typing this wouldn't really have been possible some 25-30 years ago, unless it was in an email to someone I probably personally knew. I only had read-only access to usenet.

Now, everyone (and any bot) can write text on to another computer that others can be influenced by.

Posts that are clearly attempting to manipulate me are everywhere - propaganda thrived in the newspapers, on the radio, the television, and now internet. He who wins, gets to write history.

Having so much information at my fingertips (both biased and factual) mean I actually need to interact with the world less because any inquisition can be solved within seconds.

So now, I'm actively stepping away from the online and want you encourage you to do it too! I've started to read a physical book, ask more people questions forget my phone more often, and take a better look at the world around me, and things are so much more quieter!

"Muh anxieties" have no excuse because I need to forget about them to do stuff.

We're actually becoming a world of isolated people falling into particular funnels that shape us. Break free now and do something afk that scares you. Put your phone down, leave it at home when you go out, ask a stranger for directions.

You owe no online community anything, especially not your short-lived time.

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[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (5 children)

yeah but making friends IRL as a mid 30s millennial feels impossible.

[–] catty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (4 children)
[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

...huh? i don't know what that means.

[–] testfactor@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

He's just saying that using Lemmy as a cope for not having IRL friends is healthy.

But, to your point, making friends is easier than you think. Join groups. They're everywhere. I literally went to a "boardgame play testing" event today and met a lot of cool people.

Things like that are everywhere. You just got a look for them.

[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

oh, uh, sure? that's an odd thing to reply with when i never implied only having friends on Lemmy or online was healthy.. so.. alright. i do have friends in person, if we're going to talk about it. i just still find it rather difficult to make new connections.

[–] testfactor@lemmy.world 1 points 26 minutes ago

Fair. The OP you were responding to was about how people cope with loneliness IRL with pseudo-real online interactions, and you responded with how it's difficult to find relationships in person.

I agree it's not necessarily related, but I the guy above was wildly afeild taking your statement as an excuse for why finding relational fulfillment online is an acceptable cope. It was kind of the topic at hand.

But, aside from that, I think making new connections is really just about going out there and doing it. I'm 33 and constantly meet new people, so it's definitely achievable in your 30's. Just go to things. Open up Eventbrite or whatever and find something going on that looks like fun, and then just go. There's a whole world of opportunities out there to meet new people.

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