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Why the fucking fuck does that need a name? People incapable of such basic communication aren't really going to be fixed by slapping a weird label on it.
It reminds me of people on LGBT forums and seeing shit like: "I'm a man, and I like women, but I don't feel sexual attraction towards all of them, only the ones I feel a connection with; what are my labels?"...and wanting to scream "NORMAL! NORMAL IS YOUR LABEL! WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!".
Meanwhile everyone is like "Oh, you're ace+/romantic"..../sigh...
How is this bigoted? And who said I disagree with non-violent communication? You know what we call that? -- Just communication.
You might want to re-read what I wrote. You either seem to have missed a key portion of it, or because you saw the letters "LGBT" you've somehow immediately primed yourself for confrontation...
You're making an argument of absurd literalism. You argue that the name "non violent communication" is inappropriate because all language is non-violent by definition.
But obviously any description of language will be in the context of language. Words can be fearful, as in they display clear fear by their speaker, even though obviously words themselves cannot experience emotion. Language could be called "confusing," even though language has no will, can take no action, and cannot confuse anyone.
Obviously words themselves are not physical things. That doesn't mean language cannot be violent. Language can be violent in the exact same way language can be proud, boastful, joyful, and a thousand other things that words themselves are incapable of directly being or doing.
You're performing an exercise in literalist absurdity. Is your name Amelia Bedelia by any chance?
The problem with the term "non-violent communication", is that we don't preface things that we describe based on their lack of something.
You might as well call it "non-love communication"...get it?
We don't call driving to work "non-violent driving", we just call it driving.
We don't call our jobs "non-slavery labor". You're practicing absurdity in order to proclaim some higher order of thinking, but you're just being silly.
Nobody is "dunking" on LGBT folks. The presented scenario is literally of a completely straight person invading those spaces. You really have a problem with reading comprehension, you know that? I'm even, quite literally, presenting them in a positive, helpful light in this scenario, as they're being inclusive and presenting labels for this completely straight person to present with. So what's your damn problem?
ah damn, it seems i am in the wrong here. sorry about that i tend to get like blind and delusional and shit with strong emotions and everything and the whole concept of NVC is tied to my own sexuality and personality and the therapy for the personality disorder and the and the... but yeah, uh nevermind me.