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Participants (N = 717) characterized their relationships with their dog and four human partners: closest kin, romantic partner, best friend, and child, using the Network of Relationships Inventory. The results showed that owners reported greater satisfaction with their dogs than with any human partner except their child. They received more Support from dogs than from any human partner except their child and experienced fewer Negative Interactions with their dogs compared to any human partner, except their best friend. Overall, the relationship with the dog provided high Companionship, opportunities for Nurturance, and minimal Negative Interactions. This may stem from the fact that the dog-human relationship features a more asymmetric power dynamic than human relationships – i.e., owners have full control over the dog’s life

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 29 points 1 day ago (19 children)
[–] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Love 'em (got 2), but they're just not quite as attached to their humans as dogs tend to be.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can have some of ours. They won't leave us alone!

[–] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

That's the thing, tho - I could take them, and after a getting to know each other period they'd likely be fine with me. There's no real loyalty as long as they get what they want. Dogs might adapt, but if they see their original human love even after a year or more, they're dumping your ass for that person.

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cats can do the same thing though. I have seen it first hand.

[–] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're one up on me. Many years ago, I was in a situation for a while where I had to home my cat at the time with my aunt who was a bit of a "crazy cat lady." When I came to visit a few months later, he didn't really react to my presence at all.

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's because cats don't automatically like you. They have autonomy. You have to earn it. And that's what really separates cats from dogs.

[–] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Well, that's quite an insulting assumption of how our relationship stood. Even if he wasn't into me as you not so subtly imply, he was most definitely into my spouse & the reaction was the same.

Maybe - just maybe - it's possible some are different than others?

Nah.

My thinking is that he was getting the socialization with other cats at my aunt's that he didn't have as a solo cat in our home.

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

It wasn't intended to be insulting, they just don't readily get along with people right off the bat, there's a whole song and dance, there's also a shit load of environmental factors to consider.

It could be that, too.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I moved overseas and sent my cat to stay with a friend while I was getting settled. After about six weeks, I finally had a stable apartment and everything, so I went to pick her up. She was asleep when I got there, but woke up as soon as she smelled me, climbed up to my shoulders (not a thing she typically does), and frantically kneaded and meowed at me until I detached her so we could leave after hanging out with the friend for an hour or so. It was heartbreaking and I haven’t left her since

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sweet baby, you won't post a picture. You won't do it

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Haha, that’s actually all I ever want to do!

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If I'm away for more than like 2 days, my cat will not come to the door, will wait for me to find him, yell at me, then ignore me for 5 minutes, then he does all the loves. Spiteful little bastard

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Give a stretch and a good ol cat hug

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