Books

Romance isn't quite my jam (I prefer it to be the B plot to a good A plot, rather than the inverse), but sci fi and fantasy romance stories are much more to my tastes than the old school stuff because I too can't stand contemporary fiction.

And yeah I'm of mixed feelings on it. The backlash is real and feels very misogynistic, but also real is the slop and ravenous fan bases. But I can't judge, I prefer to read queer speculative fiction, and it's absolutely no better. In general I'd really just like a lot of these authors to consume something not deeply entiwined with fanfic and to step outside fanfic tags. A heavy fanfic influence can go awesome, Tamsyn Muir is one of my favorite authors, but a lot of authors that came up in fanfic could really use ths range to move beyond it as well.

And beyond that, I've seen pulp readers judge romantasy and that's funny. For all my criticisms of romantasy, pulp is worse. And even the so called golden age of sci fi had so much garbage. We remember the Dune and the Clarke and the Asimov and the LeGuinn, but a) for each one worth remembering there's a lot that isn't and b) (personal opinion) modern authors do a better job of making books easier to get into. Like I love LeGuinn, The Left Hand of Darkness is an all time classic, but it absolutely is throwing a lot at you without hooking you in until well into the book.

Ooh, thanks for the recommendations! I haven't read any of those yet.

I love scifi but have always struggled as some, especially some of the classic scifi authors, seem to write women pretty strangely. Just takes me out of it. My favorite scifi book recently has been Moonbound (not romance, just a great book IMO).

My current scifi/romance read is The Veridian Priestess. A little explicit, but it gives dune/chronicles of riddick vibes with a heavy space religion plot. For me it's also a local author which is always cool. I also have heard really good things about "Of Monsters and Mainframes". But yea, kinda sucks how some people view it. As a guy I've gotten a few sideyes from other men, but I've also had the occasional guy who also likes it. Bit of a mixed bag.

Honestly I have more of a complex over not reading 'proper literature', but I decided a while back that it's better to read for fun than to not read at all.

Edit: While we're talking about shitty books, behold the worst book I've ever read 3/4's of: He Who Fights With Monsters.

Had a friend swear up and down it was incredible, ended up sending him a mini dissertation on how unbelievably bad it was. Didn't realize it started as a Wattpad story when I read it. 😬