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Ex-girlfriend of Graham Platner says he removed condoms without consent during sex
(www.washingtonpost.com)
this post was submitted on 07 Jul 2026
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Plenty of rape victims take a while to come forward. This is pretty common.
It's like we all collectively forgot about Me Too or it wasn't nearly as effective as we wanted it to be.
I'm incredibly disappointed in the reaction from some on the left to this issue.
I don't think MeToo failed. It succeeded in making known how prevalent sexual assault was. And it allowed women, including this women, to come forward with her story.
I do think MeToo could never really fight against sexual assault in its entirety because it wasn't aimed at the perpetrators. It was aimed at the victims, to tell them they weren't alone, that it was okay to talk about their experiences, that they had people that understood them.
And that is a great first step! But to really fight sexual assault, you need to aim at the those that commit assault as well.
You need to have them listen to the stories of the victims. You need to have them hear their pain that they have and continue to cause. You need to have them reconcile what they have done with who they are. It is not enough to prop up and help the victims. You also have to reform and help the offenders.
And that sounds a little crazy, that somehow the offenders are due some sort of relief for the crimes they have done. I don't want anyone reading that to think that they don't owe their victims some form of becoming whole again. Only that there has to be a movement aimed at the offenders of sexual assault to truly fight against it.
I know personally, I am much better informed now about the systemic realities around silencing of rape and sexual assault victims. I knew before some, I just know more now. Part of that was just having more life experiences in general, but I also credit Me Too.
Not crazy at all, this entire comment is great and thank you.
I didn't say a word for 15 years