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[–] canis_majoris@lemmy.ca -2 points 11 months ago

Votes are unimportant, and the sooner you stop caring about them the easier it is to interact on the site without feeling attacked.

Is it satisfying to see a big number next to your comment? Sure, but the more you think of it as just talking with people even if you ultimately disagree it's a healthier environment.