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I still believe there should be more representation in media of women with body hair.
We should normalize picking what's best for each person individually and not trying to portray a certain way that women are "supposed" to look.
Funnily enough, I personally prefer body hair because it's softer than stubble. But that's my personal preference and not one I tell others that they should do just to please me. (not saying you are doing this, just putting thoughts to words).
Fiona Dourif did a fantastic job portraying Bart in this show. If being clean shaven is how they wanted to appear on screen, I think their right to do so supersedes any obligation they have to 'normalize' anything for anyone else. It certainly did not harm the performance.
I'm not criticizing their performance or their individual choices.
I'm criticizing how the media wants to portray women as completely hairless all of the time.
The media is made up of individuals with their own choices or autonomy. It's fair to say "I wish this got more representation in media" but it's entity unfair to criticise specific individuals for not upholding a specific standard. The original premise was "what if being clean shaven was her choice?" in which case it would be nobody's place to hold that against her.
Women being hairless is a manufactured media campaign. We are born with hair, we grow hair, hair on women is natural. The prevalence of showing women as hairless below our eyebrows is a deliberate choice and it is not simply down to individual preferences.
Again, nobody has an obligation to change their body for the sake of normalizing a certain beauty standard. If the actor doesn't want to grow out it's their right not to do so. You can't criticise individuals for industry trends.
Applaud diversity when you see it, but don't critisise people just for being themselves.
I didn't criticize their individual choice.
I am criticizing the media for only showing women as hairless.
Do I need to explain this again in different words for you to understand I'm not attacking the actresses' personal choice?
Here, some reading for you
When EggInDisguise suggests that it may be personal choice and you chime in to say that representation matters as a response, it sort of comes across like you don't think the actor's preferences matter over the end goal of changing the media landscape.
This is a produced television show. Nothing the actress is wearing is her choice in the show.
I will fight tooth and nail for anyone to choose how they present their body. I don't care if people shave or don't shave.
I do care about how the media presents women and the affect it has on how society expects women to look and behave.
Assuming that actors literally have no choice at all is a bit short sighted. The original premise of the whole thread was 'what if that's just their preference'?
Then you’re back to ignoring how media presents women as if this conversation about personal choice and patriarchy have no bearing here which is false.
Look- I didn’t respond that it would be nice to see more representation as a dig at this actress. I think you’re fundamentally misunderstanding that.
Even if the actress chose to present hairless in this show, it would still be nice to see more representation of diversity throughout media. Tv shows, movies, ads, etc.
I’m not criticizing her choice or anyone’s choice of shaving. I’m criticizing how women are presented in media.