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His wife is going to be a constant hindrance and drag him away from his goals. If he fails she will say I told you so.
If he succeeds, she will claim and tell everyone it was because of her support he succeeded. If the business does really well she'll take off with half.
Take all the negativity and share the profits, that's what a marriage is now
How can you tell so precise what she will say?
His financial loss is her loss as well, also affects their kids (in case they have any). Talking about dreams like they are teenagers. It’s absolutely normal to discuss financial efforts that will probably be taken together, cause they are a family.
To be honest, sounds to me more like a marriage problem from the OP, not like a way of finding solutions for dealing with the business, but dealing with weather going on the same path with the wife that changes or concerns about specific aspects of the business that involves a way different life of both of them.
Spotted the bachelor
Yeah, I'm on this side of the issue. How strong is your relationship, really? It's not a pleasant thing to contemplate or hear, but starting and growing a new business is usually hell on relationships, and if your relationship is marginal or weak already, it may be better to decide and act on that now.
Divorce or unhappiness in a marriage is the dominant case (>50% for divorce, probably more like >75% when you factor in how many marriages are net unhappy), so real talk, with a base rate that high, most people are not currently in a relationship that is net positive and net happy and that will last. The rate of divorce when one partner is an entrepreneur is higher already, and highest still when undergoing the stress to start and grow a new business.
Given that context, seriously evaluate if she's the right person to be your partner as you go forward, because it's going to get 10x harder and more stressful for both of you if you actually put in the work and successfully grow your business, and if she's fighting you already, it's going to be five times harder to put in the work to succeed along the way.
And if your current relationship is weak in any way, the odds are that the cumulative years of greater stress will break you up anyways.
If you believe that is likely to be the case, much better to do it now before more success and more money, and then you'll also be able to put in longer hours to grow the biz without being harassed and nagged and stressed about it.