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DN & romantic relationships (alien.top)

submitted 9 months ago by BrewedWithAI@alien.top to c/digitalnomad@expats.zone

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How has nomading affected your ability to have long-term and especially committed relationships?

Long-story short: got back with my ex after a 3-year hiatus in which I visited 15+ countries and had countless of romantic encounters.

Now, every time we have an argument or when things get hard, my mind starts to drift away, thinking I should just pack things up, get a ticket to Mexico/Thailand/etc, and seek those hookups again.

I do wonder, having taken the red pill, whether I’ll ever be able to stay in a committed relationship?

How have you guys dealt with this (esp if you’re male)?

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[–] Vladimir-Putin@alien.top 1 points 9 months ago

You sound like you're kind of a POS who's stringing a woman along that you don't really love.

DNs fall in love all the time and travel the world together. Being in a committed relationship has nothing to do with being mobile. You just need to find someone you care about enough to not dream of random hookups like a selfish prick.

Obviously you're not ready to settle in one place.