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A full-page newspaper defends the punishment high school student Darryl George has faced over his hairstyle.

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[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 22 points 9 months ago (5 children)

I still CANNOT believe he chose to phrase his justification like that.

One of the things we're supposed to have is freedom to express ourselves however we see fit so long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.

My parents have a huge "Fuck Joe Biden" banner on the front of their house, and the county hasn't stepped in to be like "You can't have a two foot tall 'Fuck' on public display", and yet this guy gets in trouble for wearing his hair in a manner that's comfy to him???

I shouldn't be shocked because I live in Texas, however, I am. Maybe I'm not cynical enough.

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 7 points 9 months ago (4 children)
[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

No, I'm white as white can be. I know that's the reason but I'm just flabbergasted that this kind of racism can still be so blatant in 2024.

Ugh. I really do try to be the "I love humanity" person, but this story in particular just disgusts the fuck outta me.

I wish the George family would open a gofundme for legal costs because I'd kick some dollars their way in a heartbeat.

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I hear you.

I honestly used to say I loved humanity. Each year and each observation of us as a species as made me grow more cynical and pessimestic regarding if most people are are "good" or not. The inability of people to not become childlike and selfish was during the beginning of covid was the final piece of evidence for me.

I genuinely believe if they made a gofundme they'd widely be accused of grifting, cause, you know, projection.

Please don't give up on optimism, love and hope though, glad to hear some people haven't :)

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I find it hard sometimes, but I do genuinely believe that if humans have a fundamental nature, it's a good one. I think the problem is that the system we live under punishes vulnerability and incentivises zero-sum thinking.

I used to be a real shitty person because of this. I faced a lot of ambient bullying in school, so I trained myself to always have a cutting retort ready for if someone tried to hurt me. I was still a decent person outwardly, but inside, I was turning my heart and mind to toxic sludge. Eventually I realised how nasty my internal dialogue was and it shocked me enough that I committed to try and change, but I don't think I could've made the progress I have since then without the kind of community where I can learn what emotional vulnerability looks like and how to see that as a virtue.

A lot of hateful people seem pretty scared underneath it all. It doesn't justify their hate, but it does make me feel sympathy towards them. I wonder what kind of person they could be if they had an environment where they could properly grow as a person.

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago

Yeah 100% of everything you're saying makes sense.

You sound likea very thoughtful person. Most people are no where near as thoughtful as you are in my experience. Also humans evolved to have a zero sum mentality as we evolved in a resource-scarce world. Now that that is changing for a certain portion of the population, we're in no way inclined to start thinking differently. Some folks are, but most aren't.

You're right about fear and hostility though for sure. Don't stop being compassionate! You've lifted my spirits a bit for what its worth :)

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