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I have two kids. 7 and 3. Parenting is the hardest thing you will ever do.
I'm not unaccomplished, by any means, but I genuinely felt like I wasted my life before having a kid. We had our first at 36 and we're about to start trying for a 2nd at 38.
Which is to say, while it's hard, it's one of the only things worth doing in life. IMO, obviously.
(For the record, in our 20s we were the "no thanks" crowd, I changed in my 30s and my wife took an extra 6 years to come around)
Edit: lol love the downvotes for this benign comment. Lemmy is a dumpsterfire.
I'm gay and married. No kids, don't want them. I have nieces and nephews I can borrow for the day and then give them back.
that in itself is a service to your family.