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Not all people want to fake the "office family" dynamic.
I feel like that's a different thing. "We're a family" is a forced perversion of actual meaningful relationships with co-workers.
I will concede there is a spectrum of professional familial attitudes.
I do agree though, that the forced family is the worst.
At some point, someone found out that people who get along with their coworkers work better and like their job better. So, some dense HR directors thought, "If we want people to work better, we should force them to be friends!"
Then you get mandatory team-builders that maybe two people enjoy, and the rest are thinking about how they'd rather be spending their time.
But this is literally how family works for the first 20 years of your life. You don't get to choose one. You are assigned one from birth :D
You're missing the point. For some people, it's not faking it
I'm not missing the point. For most people it is fake and used as a tool against them. The "office family" is a tactic utilized by employers to make workers complacent without raising benefits. It's in the same toolbox as "pizza parties" and "PTO donation".
Gotta disagree. I've always had the belief that if you're in management, you don't get to play the comradery game with staff because that can easily be perceived as preferential treatment or fraternization. Management has their connections with other managers. Staff should use their comradery against management. However, your perspective isn't wrong either. I just believe that even if you're faking the "office family," it still makes work that much easier
The office "family" gets in the way of clear and honest communication by guilt tripping anyone who disagrees by treating them like someone who upset grandma at Thanksgiving. It has always been counterproductive in my experience.
The true office family are the ones you hang out in the break room and talk shit about everybody else with.
You got the wrong office family haha. I've always had the belief that you should always have the life you live at work and the life you live at home. You're not supposed to take your work home with you and you should never bring your home to work. But that doesn't mean you can't be civil and conserting while at work. And I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with your mindset. We all perceive situations in different ways. But being earnest to your coworkers with clear social lines never hurts anything. You should be allowed to be very concerned about a coworker that has health issues, but on the same hand, it shouldn't dictate your home life or emotions when not there. I hope I'm explaining what I'm trying to say correctly.
You are saying the same thing that I am on how it should work, but in my experience any office that says that they are a family tends to be the manipulating, toxic parts of families.
I'm not saying anything about people being toxic. That's your own perceptions and expectations
You can make a friend at work but the actual work is just that, work.
Most people don't want to be there, they don't want to interact with you either or anyone there either. It is a sterile corpo ran shit hole.
Also, for owners it is always faking...
If ask them for a raise and see how they react lol