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Folks with vaginas, I'm conducting some family comparative analysis and I'd like to know how many standard pieces of toilet paper do you use when wiping after a pee. I posted some comments with options to upvote if you like.

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[โ€“] Head@lemmings.world -5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Is anyone else infuriated by the number of 'I don't have a vagina BUT' posts?

Like let me speak for the woman in my life. Let me provide my opinion. I know I wasn't asked BUT...

Jesus just go die in a hole. Let women speak for themselves.

[โ€“] lud@lemm.ee 25 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Personally I don't see anything wrong with that at all. Commenting even if you don't have a vagina is absolutely not the same as speaking for everyone that does have one. In fact I haven't found a single comment that speaks for anyone but themselves.

If it's absolutely critical that only people with a vagina comments, OP should probably have put the question on a gendered ask community instead of the main one.

Some people just like to engage in the conversation about something they think is interesting even if it wasn't explicitly asked for. It's also interesting to compare delta-TP between genders.

Telling people to die seems a bit extreme for such a non issue.

[โ€“] kusari@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

1000 people dead in Alaska because they replied to a post about wiping piss

[โ€“] swankypantsu@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

I don't have a vagina yet BUT...

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