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Southerner here, no cafe or coffee shop would think twice about a black coffee, or cream only with no sugar.
Diners generally only pour the coffee, you fix it up however you want.
Individuals may give you grief of they're making you coffee in their home, but that's particular to them.
You're right about NY, though. Very different vibe.