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Everywhere you browse, people have such strong opinions about everything and are so toxic or extremely negative. You start playing a game, want to check the forums or something and most of the posts are people being mean to each other. You open social media to keep in touch with people that you'd like to maintain a certain level of contact and there's always some people that are always complaining about every single thing.

I see myself more and more closing myself into a bubble which makes me appreciate Beehaw much more. I know I am guilty of being taken away by the toxicity and sometimes replying things I wouldn't be proud of but since I joined Beehaw I see myself policing myself more and more focused on being better.

Just a quick rant, I currently started playing Baldur's Gate 3 and I am honestly pissed off on the fact people can't give feedback without being rude or "gamers" just shitting on developers because they are stans of another game. I wanted to be active on the forum and comment on bugs and such because I want the game to be better but it is so depressing reading people being awful so often.

Why are we so shitty to each other? I'm so tired.

Edit: Pardon me if I used weird terms or grammar errors, english isn't my first language

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[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Get off the internet. I've been trying to have a social event on every weekday so that I'm not sitting bored at home. You forget about politics. I also have one room in my house I've dedicated as internet-free, where I go to do stuff like drawing.

[–] Templa@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

I am way less online than I used to. However whenever I am into something new and I want to try reading about it, I end up facing these situations. That's why I am more and more leaving platforms and just avoiding things to a point I am in a bubble.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I am so bad at like getting out. I got off the internet for three whole weeks and in that time I: Did a massive amount of chores and worked on my computers' hardware without ever turning them on.

Drawing I could do, though.