I really love community-driven social media like Reddit. Lemmy feels… too small. I really loved that Reddit let me jump into any niche hobby, and instantly I had a community. Lemmy, you’ll be lucky if that community even exists, and if it does, chances are nobody has posted in ages.

On the other hand, Lemmy is full of political content lately. I’ve basically been doom scrolling everything US election-related, and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health.

I know I can filter content. I know I can post and be the change I seek. Yet, it feels like an uphill battle.

Not sure what the point of this is, or if it’s even the right community to vent about this. I just really want to replace Reddit, but I find myself going back more and more (e.g. r/homekit is very active compared to Lemmy version).

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[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I see your response here, read it, like it and then think: “Yes I agree, nothing to add”. So I don’t respond, which makes it feel pretty quiet.

On the one hand, upvotes are there. On the other, they're not really the right took for the job, Lemmy (and the Fediverse in general) needs some sort of "same" / "mood" / "this tbh" tag.

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

and the Fediverse in general

A significant number of the not-Lemmy-or-Mastodon servers support emoji and custom emoticon tags, not just 'up', 'down', or 'star'. I wish that was more widely adopted.

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I’d like to see us really embrace the improv mantra of “yes, and”. Agreement is great, but add something before you go. Upvote and comment.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That would be great, but does not seem on Lemmy devs priority list. Maybe Piefed

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

I wonder how much fuss would have to be put up in order to get nodeBB supporting it.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For me, the upvotes are ok. I use them more to gauge overall traffic. I have an idea the typical number of votes things will get, and I can see what deviates to see what is a hit, what's typical, and what isn't resonating. But without comments, there's no "why" anything is good or bad. I'm not really any better off than before to give you what you want. I can take a guess, but you could have also taken a moment to tell me. It doesn't tell me everyone's opinion, but it gives another things for the people that do vote to either add upvotes to that comment or ignore it.

Also, as someone providing the content, it's nice to have an interaction, even if it's minimal. Creating posts can eat up a lot of time, and I'm doing it to talk to you all. If nobody stops by to even say, yo, nice work, or whatever, even if I have a lot of upvotes, it still feels like I'm not talking to anyone. It feels like a chore. But if I get one person that says, hey, seeing this really made my morning, now I feel awesome and I want to post more.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

But without comments, there’s no “why” anything is good or bad.

Strong truth. But then again, the UX for this is relatively as reduced as the standard usecases allow; if the user can't bother to click on "reply", post even a "good." then click send... come on man, we're asking for literally two clicks and five keystrokes... if people can't even do that yet they interact for hours on end on TikTok, then perhaps the problem is not lemmy.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Oh for sure. It's going to be what ultimately makes or breaks this as a platform. You can't force a userbase to interact, but as OP states, like many before them, for some people there's not going to be much going on here. For people that want to at least be mildly active participants though, I haven't had this much fun since forums were the big thing. I just imagine since that was a decent while ago now that either those of us old enough to have enjoyed them are rusty at it, and the yoots are too young to have seen how it used to work.