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[โ€“] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Uh, what's your secret to getting matches on Tinder? I can't imagine trying to meet women in order to feel validated. I did online dating before apps, when people had to have written profiles and send messages. I thought I was writing thoughtful messages to women whose profiles made them seem like they might want to hear from me, but I got ignored so much that it was really hard on my self-esteem.

Am I ugly? My grandma says I'm not ugly...

Edit: I just assumed that you're a heterosexual man like me, but maybe you're a woman getting matches from men? That would be very validating, according to what I've heard.

[โ€“] yamanii@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

I'm a man, and I really don't know too since I too consider myself ugly, but seems like having a few photos where I dressed something like high casual helped I guess, also a photo with your pet if you have one.