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American culture seems to be rife with men who went to the Marines and after being discharged of duty went on to either lead successful lives or who's life took a turn for the worse and ended up on the street.

Of c, the two groups are not equal in numbers and the third much larger group lies in between these two groups. Now, I still am interested in the disparity between the extremes. Why do some people who join the Marines go on to create an over represent the Marines amount the successful, while others end up on the street? They are all given a clean slate somewhat and are exposed to the exact same environment, what do the successful learn which the unsuccessful don't?

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[โ€“] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Military service is traumatising, but can build up a nest egg of funds, so to speak. If your trauma doesn't turn into a self-reinforcing cycle, you're in a better position than most in our society (materially, not morally). It lends itself to falling in one extreme or another.

That said, I imagine there's a decent number of people who get regular jobs in the middle that you never hear about. Just the people at the bottom get the whole "they sacrificed their mental health and their life, why can't we help them" signal boost