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I concur. It's also not helping that men don't really get a lot of compliments, so they don't know what they're doing right. Plus certain people, like the creators of dating site or those awful PUA sites, trying to make a business from other people's suffering. I mean, the general idea of getting neckbeards out of their comfort zones is laudable, but those parasites then took it way too far and turned to full-on exploitation and misogyny, cementing the status quo.
I used to know this pretty normal, likeable guy who used to be a real ladies' man until his early 30s. Wondering what happened, he swallowed this whole PUA BS hook line and sinker, but things didn't improve. What has changed about him, though, was that he had gotten a career and, while being quite successful and hoarding money big time, his free time was gone. He just wasn't fun anymore. Also, he just didn't look healthy anymore. And then we lost contact.
Social media is terrible for this too. Spend any time on tiktok or youtube and it will at least try to serve you some light "men today have it so hard and it's women's fault" content. I imagine that if you bite, the algorithm will ramp it up.
We need more "men and women have it hard, let's do something about it" content. It's not a competition, it sucks for everybody.