Political Weirdos

Sadly narcissism is not just inhuman confidence. Narcissists are emotionally incomplete. The above tweet is a pretty straightforward example of a narcissist's need for constant admiration, attention, and validation. He does not experience a functional form of confidence or have any inherent self-worth at all, and cannot function without a constant source of external validation.

It's not possible to be someone who never experiences self doubt. Some people experiment with drugs or alcohol for that, but it only papers over the ugly feelings rather than help with processing them. It's normal to struggle with insecurity. I found Iroh's wisdom helpful, despite it being from a cartoon - pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source.

Perhaps like me you've struggled to connect with others in that way. Ever since I was little I felt separate from my peers, and I gravitated to others who were aloof, or social pariahs. It... Didn't work out, and now I'm mostly alone again.