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Privacy Recommendations for a Young Teen (lemm.ee)

submitted 5 days ago by pineapplelover@lemm.ee to c/privacy@lemmy.ml

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So I have a young teen entering 7th grade and so they're about to receive their first phone. With that, it opens a lot of doors to all the big tech social media apps and privacy invasive services.

I'm not sure how to approach this. My parents probably want tracking features so it'll probably be Find My or a 3rd party app like life360 depending on if we choose iphone or degoogled pixel.

Social media I'm not sure if fediverse stuff is the right path especially for lemmy, since it's just tech nerd stuff and politics which isn't interesting really unless they go out of their way to find smaller communities. Their friends will probably force them onto Instagram or some shit and I don't really want them doomscolling on reels, that shit algorithm, and the malicious messaging app built in to it.

It's just kinda hard trying to blend being a functional member of society and maintain your mental well being and privacy.

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[–] jbloggs777@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Congrats for waiting this long - many parents don't.

Honestly, this will depend on your child. If they are prone to addictive or obsessive behaviour, a smart phone will only amplify the tendancy. We already know how hard it is for adults to put down their phones for any length of time, and kids typically have less will power.

That said - digital communication is an important part of most people's lives now. If all her friends are using a particular app to communicate, they will "need" it too. Some parental controls would be good for the first phone -- which apps get installed, etc. Just be prepared to unlock most of them. ;-)

You might want a phone "lockbox" at home to ensure they turn off. Hopefully the school is strict about phone usage and etiquette too - it can help.