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It's definitely a setback, but you learned two important things:
The ONLY reason it didn't work out this first time is because 1. and 2. were not sufficiently close in time. I wouldn't have known either (and now I do, so thanks for the learning experience!). I'd probably start looking for a similar position (maybe with a company that is less weird about infrastructure, although you only know after you get the job) AND an office-type place at the same time.
I would guess a lot of the less-than-five stars motels would be happy to give you a heavy discount if you only use your room during the day and don't need to stay at night, ever. They are really selling the nights.
It must be incredibly frustrating to be in your current position, but I am really happy that you found a way to make it better. I think you got the right solution for you, it's just a matter of iterating it until it sticks. I was in your shoes and I wish I had had as clear a plan as you have.