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First off, specifically to answer your question, it is to ask for more time before your start date because you're in the process of "moving to a new place".
It's a rough situation, but you more have to focus on what went wrong and learn from that for next time. Rather than stress too much upon what you could have done to prevent whatever, because there are some (as you say, bullshit) things you just weren't able to anticipate ahead of time.
Now at least you know the jobs are out there, it's not an impossible task to land one so you can do it again. Your next job might end up being an inperson instead of remote, whatever, be flexible and just be ready. Have time on your side.
Also, if you're in Vancouver and this sort of predicament is about to happen again, DM me, and perhaps we could figure something out.