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The term "incel" doesn't really make sense. It's not involuntary, by any definition of the word that I've seen.

Almost anyone can find a partner simply through effort. Diet, exercise, hygiene, etiquette, dressing nicely, socializing, actively seeking a partner. Notice something about that list? Pretty much everyone can do those things. It's just a matter of effort.

Yes, there are some exceptions, for example from people with severe disability, but those people rarely call themselves "incels." The majority are people who are perfectly capable of doing these things.

If you don't practice basketball and you don't even go to the tryouts, you don't get to say that your not making the team was "involuntary."