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Ex-Facebook Users, What Do You Use Now? (beehaw.org)
submitted 1 year ago by curt@beehaw.org to c/technology@beehaw.org
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I joined Facebook years ago not long after it took off from its college roots. I also quit it years ago when my feed became full of junk.

The one thing I miss is contact with my friends, family, and ex-cowokers. Most of them weren’t technically inclined so that was the only platform they were on. Some of them did move to Instagram, which I did as well until Facebook bought it.

I then tried wt.social shortly after it started up. It seemed like a great alternative, but its growth is very slow, It has 450,000 users according to wikipedia. Now there’s a version 2, Trust Cafe. The same article also mentioned that they’re looking into connecting to ActivityPub.

What do you use in place of Facebook to stay in contact with friends and family? Mainly, I just use text messaging apps. I use Lemmy and Mastodon for news and information.

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[–] lemmyatom@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This. Ever since I quit facebook, I find myself reaching out to friends who I care about rather than just following their feed. I also find when we hang out, there's more for us to discuss and we cherish each other's company more because we no longer have the convenience of staying hyper updated about each other. It's the whole idea of absence makes the heart grow fonder. My advice to everyone is to stop relying on social media to keep up with people and go have some real relationships with those you care about. You'll find yourself much happier.

[–] HowlsSophie@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly. I remember I used to try to have the most "friends" possible but at some point it was like "yeah I don't actually talk to these people and I don't think I will." Used to also keep FB for certain groups I was part of but in the end, there was just no point.