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I used to do all the things mentioned here. Now, I just use Wireguard. If a family member wants to use a service, they need Wireguard. If they don't want to install it, they dont get the service.
I started my homelab with a couple exposed services, but frankly the security upkeep and networking headaches weren't worth the effort when 99% of this server's usage is at home anyway.
I've considered going the Pangolin route to expose a handful of things for family but even that's just way too much effort for very little added value (plus moving my reverse proxy to a VPS doesn't sound ideal in case the internet here goes down).
Getting 2 or 3 extra folks on to wireguard as necessary is just much easier.
Came here to say this. I use wireguard and it simply works.
Pangolin could be a solution