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Do you think “alright kids, meeting is officially over. Go home or call your parents. If anyone wants to stay we will be hanging out and teaching server stuff at ____ ‘s house for an hour or two.” Gets around this?
Homie? I want you to know that while I am going to be inflammatory, I am not insulting you. In a slightly sane world, that should be fine.
NEVER work with children. "Hey kids. You can go home or you can stay with me and a few others and learn how to use a computer!". At best you are setting yourself up for some awkward phone calls when Little Jimmy gets caught looking at something his parents don't approve of.
If you are a close family friend and the parents understand what you are going to be teaching their kid (and obviously want you to teach it), go for it. If you are just watching them while they eat orange slices? Don't fucking go anywhere near that. Let the teachers who actually train in how to handle these situations do it.
And the other aspect: Kids (and most adults) are not rational or intelligent. They aren't going to take "Hey, if Susie sends you nudes don't put them on this server because it will get me sent to prison as a diddler" as education on why they should not fucking do that.
If you ever want to get scared straight as it were? Take a teacher out for drinks (and you better pay for them!). You'll hear LOTS of horror stories and get even a glimpse into the kind of hell they have to put up with.
The show Black-ish (like a lot of Kenya Barris's work) has a LOT of problems. But the number of times teacher friends have shared https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jqmj0ILwfM. And it is not at all exclusive to black people (or even men).
My mom was a 6th grade teacher for 20 years. She always said that the worst part of the job was not the kids, but dealing with parents.
She recently pivoted to admin work. I don't blame her one bit.