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I try to selfhost wherever possible. There are a few exceptions where it's not practical (email for example), so I prefer not Google/Apple/Microsoft when that happens. In those cases, I also like to diversify so any potential enshitification is less painful to resolve.
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Yeah, email is my kryptonite. I've run a couple packages in the past, but it is tedious. I use a EU service called mailo.com. Small, little company but in business for 20 years. Not a lot of gee whiz bells and whistles. Pretty much mail and a calendar, which is really all I need. I do make use of email aliases a lot.
There are very easy steps you can take here. It seems complicated, but there are tools for this and with a VPS/VDS, you can be up and running in under an hour if you are technically inclined. Moving to my own email, is by far, one of the best things I have done in my life.
It wasn't the running it as much as the blacklisting.
So there is a bit of work you need to do, but if you manage your server well, do DMARC, DKIM, SPF etc and then nip it in the bud when you get warnings, its very easy to manage. Its about responsibility. Bad actors exist, but careful operators prevail.
Yeah, I might take a swing at it a few more times. That's kind of my modus operandi. Do it, screw it up, restart. #$@$@ Do it, it works! Write that shit down! LOL
It took me 6 deploys to finally understand all the mechanisms. What I like about self-hosting and the open source mantra in general is that every failure is a lesson with field experience. So skills development and acquisition is fairly easy if you push for it and once you get it, its wash, rinse, repeat.