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I'm just mildly curious. I know this isn't the self hosting chan, but how many of you self host services as part of your efforts to retain your privacy, security, and anonymity?

I've been self hosting something for decades now. I got really started back in the PreNapster era. I ran an independent, selfhosted, fully licensed, internet radio outfit. That was back when music on the internet was a lot of cheap, tinny, geocities, midis. LOL I worked with a company called IM Radio Networks. They and Phillips, developed one of the world's first bookshelf stereo, that was internet ready. Hook it up to the internet, and you could listen to AM/FM and IM radio. I've often mused that if it weren't for Shawn Fanning, the music landscape on the internet might look a bit different as he forced the music industry to reevaluate how they did business.

Now, I self host a ton of stuff just for my own needs. It's an enjoyable, purposeful, hobby, that keeps me busy. It's also, so very educational, and I learn new things daily.

ETA: Man it does my heart good to meet and greet privacy minded users who also self host. It is an integral part of my privacy, anonymity, and security posture. If you aren't already, or are thinking of self hosting, do it! You don't need massive racks in the closet that dim the lights on reboot. A simple NUC or even RPi are quite capable of serving up services. You don't need a Tier 1 feed from your ISP. Keep it simple and basic and work up from there to meet your needs.

Thanks again to all those who responded and shared their experiences.

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[–] huquad@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I try to selfhost wherever possible. There are a few exceptions where it's not practical (email for example), so I prefer not Google/Apple/Microsoft when that happens. In those cases, I also like to diversify so any potential enshitification is less painful to resolve.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, email is my kryptonite. I've run a couple packages in the past, but it is tedious. I use a EU service called mailo.com. Small, little company but in business for 20 years. Not a lot of gee whiz bells and whistles. Pretty much mail and a calendar, which is really all I need. I do make use of email aliases a lot.

[–] nicgentile@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There are very easy steps you can take here. It seems complicated, but there are tools for this and with a VPS/VDS, you can be up and running in under an hour if you are technically inclined. Moving to my own email, is by far, one of the best things I have done in my life.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It wasn't the running it as much as the blacklisting.

[–] nicgentile@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

So there is a bit of work you need to do, but if you manage your server well, do DMARC, DKIM, SPF etc and then nip it in the bud when you get warnings, its very easy to manage. Its about responsibility. Bad actors exist, but careful operators prevail.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, I might take a swing at it a few more times. That's kind of my modus operandi. Do it, screw it up, restart. #$@$@ Do it, it works! Write that shit down! LOL

[–] nicgentile@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

It took me 6 deploys to finally understand all the mechanisms. What I like about self-hosting and the open source mantra in general is that every failure is a lesson with field experience. So skills development and acquisition is fairly easy if you push for it and once you get it, its wash, rinse, repeat.