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[โ€“] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Due to my father being a student leader in his youth, and later a local socialist party worker, I happen to know quite a few Indian politicians. I know people both from the left, and the right, and more than 90% of them are awful manipulative bastards. That's the main reason I decided not to be active in the party. Even though I support their on-paper agenda, I just loathe the leadership, and don't have the patience or the will to work with them. I still go to their events whenever I'm in India, like fundraisers and stuff, but I try to avoid the leadership. Fuckers make my skin crawl.

Edit: All the people talking about therapy in the other comments probably mean well, but not everything can (or needs to) be solved by therapy. I think this is one of the negative aspects of therapy when its hyper focused on individuals. This sort of idea that everyone should try to change themselves, instead of critiquing the society is what's got us into this individualistic hellhole. Sure, go ahead and disconnect from these people, or learn to ignore them and be happy; but these people are still there, and they often have real power over us. You can ignore them, until you can't; that's how we get people like Trump.

[โ€“] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

Damn right! You don't need therapy to disconnect from people, unless they were a focal part of your life.