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‘It’s not you, it’s me’ is the gist of college student qualms with dating apps. Hook-up culture declines while young people search for genuine connection.

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[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 115 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I like how the title implies that the college students have dumped the app because the CEO has stepped down, as if they only kept using it to not hurt the CEO's feelings.

[–] deleted@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Many posts in lemmy have confusing titles.

I wonder if posters like OP brainstorm for 10 min like.. How can I make the title more confusing?

Edit: sorry to all OPs, I’ve never noticed titles are the same after visiting the article page.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 16 points 1 year ago

It's the title on the article.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

When I posted an article I got a message saying it would be deleted unless I altered my title to the title of the article on the site. I didn't care for the article on the site but rather the content. I haven't posted since so I don't know if that has changed, but I was kind of turned off from posting do to that.

That was in the News thread though.

[–] deleted@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It’s definitely frustrating.

Maybe summary by the poster is enough. Because usually the actual information would be the first sentence of the fourth paragraph.

[–] hardware26@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 year ago

We should stop calling these titles confusing and call them what they are, plain wrong. This is the title of the original article. People who cannot write grammatically correct titles are writing entire articles.

[–] eatfudd@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

While this article and post happen to have the same title I have noticed that way too many posts have editorialized titles that aren't nearly what the article is portraying. Needs to be more rules for these communities that the post title must match the article title.

[–] Salamendacious@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I took it the exact opposite way. College students aren't using the app and the CEO was forced out... I'm sorry "stepped down"

[–] crit@links.hackliberty.org 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Then it should be the other way around "CEO forced to step down as college students aren't using the app anymore", the latter caused the former.

[–] EatATaco@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Notice how you have to add the ""is forced to" to make even the "reverse" say what you want. I agree that it isnt a great title, but the "as" indicates things happening at the same time, not necessarily the former causing the latter.

[–] crit@links.hackliberty.org 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tbh I just wrote it from memory as I'm on my phone: Bumble CEO steps down as college students dump dating apps

And I have to disagree, it definitely is a causality thing in a weird way, sure they happen at the same time-ish but it implies a connection between the former and the latter — the latter being used as a reference point around which the former is explained to have happened.

[–] EatATaco@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't get me wrong, it's a shitty title that could be more clear and I can absolutely see how you can infer that conclusion. But the fact that when you reversed it you had to add "is forced to" to drive home the point just kind of proves my point how weak the inference that the former caused the latter is.

[–] crit@links.hackliberty.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But I rewrote it in the comment you just replied to based on the accurate wording 😅

[–] EatATaco@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago

lol. I didn't even realize you had rewritten it again. Further driving home the point that the order makes little difference.