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What do you think of people who CONSTANTLY talk about religion? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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As a Christian who doesn't follow much of the super religious "rules", I think it's kind of a red flag but sometimes it's not. Red flag because my girlfriend's ex-friend was super devout and put it all over her bio and was very ableist and homophobic. My friend, for example, is agnostic, so he's not sure if spirituality exists. He has a friend who's super devout and constantly talks about Christianity. She has a Discord server about Christianity and most of her friends are Christian who just talk about Jesus and God all the time. She puts the crosses and bible verses in her bio too. She's very nice and tries to be accepting but seems kinda judgmental or like "Oh, your non-traditional ways are... nice I guess."

She constantly asks my friend how his relationship with God is and if he reads the Bible and what his favorite verses are, even when he says he's not super religious.

My mom as of recent has become super religious, and while she is pretty left-leaning, thinks the only way to believe is to be Christian and you HAVE to believe in Jesus or you'll die instead of live forever in Heaven.

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 16 points 4 days ago

I am immediately put off by anyone talking constantly about a topic unless it's justified by context.

For example, if you are talking non stop about your favorite game at a gaming convention or at your DnD table, let it be. Or with your friends who are in the same fandom, no prob. If you can't shut up about it outside of that and constantly bring the topic up unprompted, well. I wonder what else you can't tell about context.

I guess with religion it's worse because by its own nature it implies you, the follower, know best and better than those who don't. So not only you come across as a fool who can't read the room, you also come across as arrogant.