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Email ownership, I give up. (lemmy.today)
submitted 1 month ago by altphoto@lemmy.today to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
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I give up.

I tried left and right to try to install an email server so I could degoogle my life.

But therechnical barrier is thick and Google keeps adding more to it. Forget it. I can't even get thru the installation process much less trying to get my shit off Google.

I figure, I don't actually have any need for my email addresses. Just like my phone number. I never call anyone. I'm going to discourage my kids from using email at all. I'll remind everyone I know that I don't use email at every opportunity I get just like I remind people to not call me and that my phone number is not available.

Between spammers and Google, I just don't need this headache in my life. My mom is much less technically savvy than the average pet. So Google will just siphon her data and when the megabits are full then you just delete the old stuff.

You don't need it. No one will spend their life reading your emails when you're gone or watching your videos or listening to your recordings or viewing your photos. There's no need to worry about just deleting the pile of shit you've accumulated. I'm this done.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 34 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This really saddens me. Email is such a fundamentally good and open protocol. The only reason people don’t like it is because of big tech’s shenanigans.

I run an email service called Port87. I invite you to try it and see if it can convince you that email is actually a great technology, when detached from big tech slop. It’s got some really killer features that make it great for organization and preventing spam. You can also tell it that on certain addresses, it should completely ignore the strict auth requirements it usually has, so it will accept email from your own services without you having to set up all the extra bullshit that’s meant for stuff that matters more.

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was told about this one but never actually tried it. I am more hellbent on setting up my own server so I never have to migrate from anywhere.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you have your own domain, you won’t ever have to migrate addresses, just possibly providers.

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

I do have one yeah. I'll have to take a look.