If you don't actually want to allow external untrusted people accessing your server, why go the VM route? That seems like a huge waste of resources and just complicates things compared to using containers (Podman is best IMHO).
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I went with Proxmox. Proxmox has been stable, and most importantly, widely used enough that I can find answers with one or two google searches. I also like being able to manage all of my containers and VMs from a web interface if I want to. One added benefit is that Proxmox uses LXC containers, which are easier for me than Docker containers.
I like Promox for home, and XCP-NG for work. I'm just significantly more resource constrained at the house then work, so container management in the main interface is nice. At work, everything is a VM with containers on top (when needed)