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Tl;dr

I have no idea what I’m doing, and the desire for a NAS and local LLM has spun me down a rabbit hole. Pls send help.

Failed Attempt at a Tl;dr

Sorry for the long post! Brand new to home servers, but am thinking about building out the setup below (Machine 1 to be on 24/7, Machine 2 to be spun up only when needed for energy efficiency); target budget cap ~ USD 4,000; would appreciate any tips, suggestions, pitfalls, flags for where I’m being a total idiot and have missed something basic:

Machine 1: TrueNAS Scale with Jellyfin, Syncthing/Nextcloud + Immich, Collabora Office, SearXNG if possible, and potentially the *arr apps

On the drive front, I’m considering 6x Seagate Ironwolf 8TB in RAIDz2 for 32TB usable space (waaay more than I think I’ll need, but I know it’s a PITA to upgrade a vdev so trying to future-proof), and I am thinking also want to add in an L2ARC cache (which I think should be something like 500GB-1TB m.2 NVMe SSD); I’d read somewhere that back of the envelope RAM requirements were 1GB RAM to 1TB storage (though the TrueNAS Scale hardware guide definitely does not say this, but with the L2ARC cache and all of the other things I’m trying to run I probably get to the same number), so I’d be looking for around 48GB (though I am under the impression that using an odd number of DIMMs isn’t great for performance, so that might bump up to 64GB across 4x16GB?); I’m ambivalent on DDR4 vs. 5 (and unless there’s a good reason not to, would be inclined to just use DDR4 for cost), but am leaning ECC, even though it may not be strictly necessary

Machine 2: Proxmox with LXC for Llama 3.3, Stable Diffusion, Whisper, OpenWebUI; I’d also like to be able to host a heavily modded Minecraft server (something like All The Mods 9 for 4 to 5 players) likely using Pterodactyl

I am struggling with what to do about GPUs here; I’d love to be able to run the 70b Llama 3.3, it seems like that will require something like 40-50GB VRAM to run comfortably at a minimum, but I’m not sure the best way to get there; I’ve seen some folks suggest 2x3090s is the right balance of value and performance, but plenty of other folks seem to advocate for sticking with the newer 4000 architecture (especially with the 5000 series around the corner and the expectation prices might finally come down); on the other end of the spectrum, I’ve also seen people advocate for going back to P40s

Am I overcomplicating this? Making any dumb rookie mistakes? Does 2 machines seems right for my use cases vs. 1 (or more than 2?)? Any glaring issues with the hardware I mentioned or suggestions for a better setup? Ways to better prioritize energy efficiency (even at the risk of more cost up front)? I was targeting something like USD 4,000 as a soft price cap across both machines, but does that seem reasonable? How much of a headache is all of this going to be to manage? Is there a light at the end of the tunnel?

Very grateful for any advice or tips you all have!


Hi all,

So sorry again for the long post. Just including a little bit of extra context here in case it’s useful about what I am trying to do (I feel like this is the annoying part of an online recipe where you get a life story instead of the actual ingredient list; I at least tried to put that first in this post.) Essentially I am a total noob, but have spent the past several months lurking on forums, old Reddit and Lemmy threads, and have watched many hours of YouTube videos just to wrap my head around some of the basics of home networking, and I still feel like I know basically nothing. But I felt like I finally got to the point where I felt that I could try to articulate what I am trying to do with enough specificity to not be completely wasting all of your time (I’m very cognizant of Help Vampires and definitely do not want to be one!)

Basically my motivation is to move away from non-privacy respecting services and bring as much in-house as possible, but (as is frequently the case), my ambition has far outpaced my skill. So I am hopeful that I can tap into all of your collective knowledge to make sure I can avoid any catastrophic mistakes I am likely to blithely walk myself into.

Here are the basic things I am trying to accomplish with this setup:

• A NAS with a built in media server and associated apps
• Phone backups (including photos) 
• Collaborative document editing
• A local ChatGPT 4 replacement 
• Locally hosted metasearch
• A place to run a modded Minecraft server for myself and a few friends

The list in the tl;dr represent my best guesses for the write software and (partial) hardware to get all of these done. Based on some of my reading, it seemed that a number of folks recommend running TrueNAS baremetal as opposed to in ProxMox for when there is an inevitable stability issue, and that got me thinking more about how it might be valuable to split out these functions across two machines, one to hand heavier workloads when needed but to be turned off when not (e.g. game server, all local AI), and a second machine to function as a NAS with all the associated apps that would hopefully be more power efficient and run 24/7.

There are two things that I think would be very helpful to me at this point:

  1. High level feedback on whether this strategy sounds right given what I am trying to accomplish. I feel like I am breaking the fundamental Keep It Simple Stupid rule and will likely come to regret it.
  2. Any specific feedback on the right hardware for this setup.
  3. Any thoughts about how to best select hardware to maximize energy efficiency/minimize ongoing costs while still accomplishing these goals.

Also, above I mentioned that I am targeted around USD 4,000, but I am willing to be flexible on that if spending more up front will help keep ongoing costs down, or if spending a bit more will lead to markedly better performance.

Ultimately, I feel like I just need to get my hands on something and start screwing things up to learn, but I’d love to avoid any major costly screw ups before I just start ordering parts, thus writing up this post as a reality check before I do just that.

Thanks so much if you read this far down the post, and for all of you who share any thoughts you might have. I don’t really have folks IRL I can talk to about these sorts of things, so I am extremely grateful to be able to reach out to this community. -------

Edit: Just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone who shared their thoughts! I posted this fully expecting to get no responses and figured it was still worth doing just to write out my plan as it stood. I am so grateful for all of your thoughtful and generous responses sharing your experience and advice. I have to hop offline now, but look forward to responding to any comments I haven’t had a chance to turn to tomorrow. Thanks again! :)

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[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

So, I'm a rabid selfhoster because I've spent too many years watching rugpull tactics from every company out there. I'm just going to list what I've ended up with, and it's not perfect, but it is pretty damn robust. I'm running pretty much everything you talk about except much in the way of AI stuff at this point. I wouldn't call it particularly energy efficient since the equipment isn't very new. But take a read and see if it provokes any thoughts on your wishlist.


My Machine 1 is a Proxmox node with ZFS storage backing and machine 2 is mirror image but is a second Proxmox node for HA. Everything, even my OPNsense router runs on Proxmox. My docker/k8s hosts are LXCs or VMs running on the nodes, and the nodes replicate nearly everything between them as a first level, fast recovery backup/high availability failover. I can then live migrate guests around very quickly if I want to upgrade and reboot or otherwise maintain a node. I can also snapshot guests before updates or maintainance that I'm scared will break stuff. Or if I'm experimenting and like to rollback when I fuck up.

Both nodes are backed up via Proxmox Backup Server for any guests I consider prod, and I take backups every hour and keep probably 200 backups at various intervals and amounts. These dedup in PBS so the space utilization for all these extra backups is quite low. I also backup via PBS to removable USB drives on a longer schedule, and swap those out offsite weekly. Because I bind mount everything in my docker compose stacks, recovering a particular folder at a point in time via folder restore lets me recover a stack quite granularly. Also, since it's done as a ZFS snapshot backup, it's internally consistent and I've never had a db-file mismatch issue that didn't just journal out cleanly.

I also zfs-send critical datasets via syncoid to zfs.rent daily from each proxmox node.

Overall, this is highly flexible and very, very bulletproof over the last 5 or 6 years. I bought some decade old 1-U dell servers with enough drive bays and dual xeons, so I have plenty of threads and ram and upgraded to IT-mode 12G SAS RAID cards , but it isn't a powerhouse server or anything, I might be $1000 into each of them. I have considered adding and passing through an external GPU to one node for building an ollama stack on one of the docker guests.

The PBS server is a little piece of trash i3 with a 8TB sata drive and a GB NIC in it.

[–] libretech@reddthat.com 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

This is super interesting, thanks so much for sharing! In my initial poking around, I'd seen a lot of people that suggested virtualizing TrueNAS within Proxmox was a bit of a headache (especially when something inevitably goes wrong and everything goes down), but I hadn't considered cutting out TrueNAS entirely and just running directly on Proxmox and pairing that virtualization with k8s and robust backups (I am pleasantly shocked that PBS can manage that many backups without it eating up crazy amounts of space). After the other comments I was sort of aligning around starting off with a TrueNAS build and then growing into some of the LLM stuff I mentioned, but I have to admit this is really intriguing as an alternative (even if as something to work towards once I've got some initial prototypes; figuring out k8s would be a really fun project I think). Just out of curiosity, how noisy do you find the old Dell servers? I have been hesitant both because of power draw and noise, but would love to get feedback from someone who has them. Thanks so much again for taking the time to write all of this out, I really appreciate it!

[–] libretech@reddthat.com 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

(Also very curious about all of the HA stuff; it's definitely on my list of things to experiment with, but probably down the line once I've gotten some basic infrastructure in place. Very excited at the prospect though)

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

The HA stuff is as hard as prepping the cluster and making sure it's repping fine, then enable whichever guests you want to HA. It's seriously not difficult at all.

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