Neurodivergence

You might benefit from one of my "graceful degradation" tactics. I order too much delivery food too, but I keep a stock of frozen vegetables and canned beans/tomato to boost it with. Most of them only need 3 mins in a microwave, which is less time than it takes for the delivery.

You would be surprised how much frozen spinach can be put on a pizza without changing the flavors. Peas and broccoli can go in almost anything with a decent sauce, especially curries. Those are my top 3 stocks, mostly because leafy greens tend to expire the fastest when fresh.

Also, for non-frozen stuff, a pound of potatoes takes 7mins in my microwave. And when I do cook something like lentils or rice (where i can put it on the stove, set a timer and walk away), I make a double batch and freeze the rest to bulk out and diversify other foods.

Tinned tomatoes or passata can be dumped in a bunch of things without much thought beyond "make it hot and less wet". Dried seaweed and shiitake mushrooms too for Asian foods.

I also lean on raw carrots and almonds for snacks.

2 Veggies + carbs + meat Works perfectly. No sugar. No drinks except water. Fruit as a snack. You have to cook.

I'm pescatarian, mostly vegetarian, and I love to cook but only have the focus to do it a few times a week. My preferred meal plan is to make a giant pot of something once a week, freeze a few servings, and eat the rest. Then I also eat other things I've frozen in the past or have on hand. My favored meals are simple things like an apple and peanut butter, tuna salad, oatmeal, rice with vegetables and scrambled eggs, that kind of stuff. I only eat out once a week and do intermittant fasting as well.

Quit soda is a pretty basic easy one. Don't drink anything except juices, water, and milk and make sure the juices are 0 sugar. You may get withdrawals depending on how often you regularly drink sugary drinks. Carbonated water works too, just make sure to read the label to see if it's actually 0 sugar. It'll take a lot of willpower in the first few weeks but after that it's smooth sailing. I'm 6 weeks right now without soda and already dropped 10 pounds of weight. All I've had is water, carbonated water, and lemonade on occasion.

Calorie counting can also help depending on the availability. You don't have to be meticulous. Just make sure you aren't eating as much empty calories and that you don't go over the recommended daily amount too much.

It’s not perfect but here’s what I’ve been doing lately. It’s my favorite method so far because, like you, I find cooking to be too much work most of the time.

From the store I’ll get:

• protein: usually ground beef, ground turkey, or boneless chicken
• premade sauce: not just spaghetti sauce but also teriyaki, sweet and sour, curry, pesto, whatever catches my eye
• whole potatoes or sweet potatoes
• frozen vegetables
• cheese
• rice or pasta if I’m running low

Once or twice a week I’ll throw the veggies in the oven to roast, bake a couple of potatoes (or sweet potatoes), and cook the meat with basic seasoning (salt, pepper, onion and garlic). When everything’s cooked it goes in separate containers in my fridge. If rice sounds good I’ll make a batch of it too. Just make sure you make enough for 3-4 meals.

When it’s time to eat, I just throw it all together with a sauce and heat it in the microwave. So maybe I’ll do protein + veggies + rice + teriyaki sauce. Or protein + veggies + cheese stuffed in a baked potato. Or protein + veggies over pasta with spaghetti sauce.

It does take a chunk of energy and executive function to cook the foods, but if you can get yourself to do it then for the next several days you can be eating in 5 minutes with minimal effort. Since my family insists on eating Every. Damn. Day. this makes it a little more tolerable.

I’ve been doing intermittent fasting for about a year now. Eating only between 12.00 and 20.00.
It’s been working so far, but I really need to fight the urge to have an oversized lunch when noon comes around.
Together with trying to walk or cycle wherever I go, and a weekly gym visit (pilates mostly), I have been slowly losing weight. I thankfully was only several kg overweight to begin with, but it was getting worse.
I could still do with cutting down on snacks though, but that has been a challenge. I subconsciously reach for things around the house that I shouldn’t be eating.

My same foods kind of determine my diet for me.

@EthicalAI Chosen, or actual?

I would like to be able to eat more veggies and unprocessed food, but in practice I eat what I'm able to get fixed quickly.

I've gotten good at finding frozen veg mixes that I can combine with nut butter or fresh cheese to make a sort of sauce by heating it in the microwave for a few minutes. But availability of these is very sporadic, and stores will frequently stop carrying them for no particular reason.

So if all I can manage for a given meal is a packet of ramen, that's what I'm gonna shovel into my mouth to keep me going another few hours.

I drink a lot of Soylent, 3 bottles on a typical day. I will usually have a solid meal for dinner and a solid breakfast or snack. Before this I used to eat pretty terribly. When I got my first desk job I was eating half of a pizza every day for lunch. I just didn't have the mental energy to commit to making myself good meals each day.

When I travel I always bring enough Soylent powder to give me at least breakfast and lunch each day. I actually enjoy trying new foods and I will eat pretty much anything that's a vegetable or grain. But when I'm traveling I'm usually meeting new people or working or at a convention. I frequently don't have the energy to research new restaurants around me.