I'm fully onboard with all the critique listed here, but I'm afraid I do still use R on a daily basis. Why? Because of sheer (and original / non-bot) traffic, I guess.

This tends to mean that highly-useful, knowledgeable, expert-level commentary is still produced there in significant quantities, even if it does mean sifting hard through the dreck to find it. And that stuff can be hugely useful to me.

That said, I feel like Lemmy has a significantly higher signal-to-noise ratio, so it doesn't have to be remotely as big as R in order to achieve the same level of usefulness, and indeed, L is certainly useful right here and right now.

But I guess the other thing is that most of the smaller and niche communities here could really use a membership boost. Maybe with the next reddit screw-up, that will happen, hehe.

I've not been using my main account for years now. I've had an alt account for discussions about sex and sexuality. I recently deleted that one because it was just utterly pointless now, and I won't go back. Both the activity levels and quality of the discussion in sex subreddits has been plummeting in the recent years, and now, I just don't know if the people who remain are just bots or what. The whole thing that was actually one of the things that Reddit could have had an advantage on, because they just allowed sex related subs to exist and didn't care if it was profitable. But with so many people fleeing the site, there's less and less of that critical mass of users to go around.

So niche discussions don't work even when they're definitely not "niche" discussions is top worst thing. The rest of top 20 things wrong with Reddit can be summarised as "admins are stupid and we hate 'em"

The platform is apparently run by people who are pro-nazis so that's fun. They pulled the trigger on Banning me for an incredibly flimsy reason.

I don't really think about reddit anymore.

Censorship — So many subs have extremely odd restrictions on posts and comments; special rules to be able to comment; a list of words or phrases that shadow-remove your comments, etc. This sometimes doesn't matter with day-to-day stuff. It inhibits the capacity to explore controversial topics or have hard conversations. "Can't meta-refer to another thread or sub," "We want good content, but don't post lengthy sourced write-ups!," You find after dissecting why your comment was shadow-removed that "genocide" or "apartheid" trigger removal. No Ellipsis use on one sub, lol. I have a list of censored words by sub. Can't explore tough issues without legitimate adherence to free speech. It's one thing not to enable bigotry and incivility, but we need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable sometimes in order to yield breakthrough progress across echo-chambers.

Power-tripping mods — It has become worse in recent years. Subs that used to have respectable mods and a true appeals process just comes down to them blindly reaffirming whatever judgement there is absent of reason or ethics. Ultimately they aren't arbiters of civil discourse but more often than not blatantly attempt to shape discourse relative to their own agenda; r/news and r/worldnews are notorious for this, particularly.

Blocking — The hit-and-run of users throwing out weak arguments then running away by blocking is itself disappointing; but that when a user blocks it nukes the rest of the thread, disallowing you to respond to anyone else who independently replies to you makes ZERO sense.

(Bonus: bots, but that's a given).

In the end I'll go wherever the people are. I'll use reddit, lemmy, and I'm hopeful that the new old Digg returning with Kevin Rose and Ohanian will work out.

Shadowbans by, what looks like, AI automation

Total bans for upvoting anti-nazi posts.

The worst thing is ppl talking about it on lemmy, teeheehee.
But fr, I left 2 yrs ago, still will use it if a search brings me there, but dont really log-on, and haven't scrolled it 2 yrs.
Kinda weird how popular it is now too.

The admins
The top mods
The redesigns constantly making it more shit as it goes

Reddit is pretty much read-only for me now. Looks like many of you are the same because I don't save or share to my browser very many anymore. Peeps ain't writing stuff (of interest to me) on Reddit anymore.

• Bot posts
• Karma Farmers
• No organic interaction in comments

Shadowbans

Bans

Ads fucking everywhere even in the comments

admins
mods
users

• effective API shutdown for everyone but themselves to force users onto their objectively worse own app that is filled with ads and telemetry.
• shadowbanning and even real banning for flimsy reasons. Banning whole communities because they think it pleases shareholders.
• AI agents that pollute and distort the discourse. Like posts with 10k upbotes and 5 comments.

That and essentially all the additional things that come with an IPO. All corporate owned social media has gone to shit sooner or later. Most platforms didn't even make it that far.

Bro who cares? Thanks for this post to remind me to unsub this dumb com

Shitty app.
Shitty web interface.
Corpo policies.