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I try to read more but what else is there when I don’t wanna just read? I’ve done some notebook stuff too but I’ve found using it too much makes me be anxious about writing a lot down lol.

For instance as I lay on the bed for 10-20 minutes waiting for my child to take their nap. Do I just stare into the void?

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[–] mpblack@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

Reading on my e-reader (e-ink) or print books. Short periods - eg waiting for a kid to do something - are good for poetry. Meditating. Listening to music. Listening to podcasts. Sometimes I’ve taken out some paper and doodled while listening to something - which is really gratifying (even though I’m no Picasso). I also cook, which is wonderful. Or I go for a long walk. I’m also actively trying to fill my time with offline human engagement - volunteering twice a week and participating in a men’s group (a safe space for men to share their experiences).

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Read the Qur'an, or Ecclesiastes and reflect upon it if the former scares you. 😁

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 month ago

Can't relate. There is far more content to checkout then one can in one lifetime. Online and offline.

Hope you find your way to what you're seeking in life. Peace.

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