How often will you use more the 64gb of ram? The performance penalty when you do will be much more then the performance gained from faster memory. It's also easier to turn down game settings, so I would definetly tend towards more RAM.
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Is it confirmed that AMD supports 5600 CL40 anyway? Especially in notebooks without any overclocking features, you need to expect that everything is following AMDs spec exactly. Not like desktop mainboards that just on default do overclocks, even if they cause instability and will just try whatever settings the memory indicates as supported.
Secondly, GPUs are typically less sensitive to latency and much more sensitive to bandwidth (because they do more batched and pipelined processing where you have less surprising and truly random accesses), but a lot of them in parallel.
The CPU side of things is the one more sensitive to latency. For CPUs bandwidth, once there is a good amount, only becomes relevant in very specialized workloads.