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Home Automation
Home automation is the residential extension of building automation.
It is automation of the home, housework or household activity.
Home automation may include centralized control of lighting, HVAC (heating, ventilation and air conditioning), appliances, security locks of gates and doors and other systems, to provide improved convenience, comfort, energy efficiency and security.
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I'm using the Lumary recessed lights with smart switches in always on/smart bulb mode. Home Assistant listens for button press events from those switches and sends the appropriate command to the bulbs. Use Local Tuya so there's no reliance on the cloud. Also look into adaptive lighting so you get the right light based on time of day. Awesome.
Some notes. White brightness is great, but color brightness is poor. Not horrible for ambient color effects, but poor for dedicated color lightning. Also, they sometimes drop WiFi and I need to cut the power (using the smart switch) and restore.
Lastly, if I had to do it all over again, I'd go with Philips Hue recessed Zigbee lights instead. 2x or more in price, but from what I hear they are near flawless. You can also pair them to a Zigbee light switch meaning they still function if the hub were to go down.
Thanks for your input!