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Usually I keep this band flipped the other way so it's a private message for just me.

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[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 18 minutes ago* (last edited 18 minutes ago)

Hol' up. All over again? Again?

^Fuuuck.^

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 8 hours ago

Every bad day you get through is another day you never have to live through again, and I think there’s something to be said for that.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 8 points 10 hours ago
[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

In the book series Hyperion, a messiah character says she thought of her message over and over to make it as concise as possible. The final version of her message was "choose again", sort of saying you are not bound by destiny or your past, you can always reevaluate and continue forward, whatever forward means for you

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 17 minutes ago

In the same vein, falling flat on your face is technically forward progress. Technically. Take the W, and pick the gravel outta your teeth. 🤷🏼‍♂️😅

[–] beSyl@slrpnk.net 2 points 10 hours ago

Where did you buy this band? Looks interesting..