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For me, it's my mom. She wasn't the perfect mom but she did what she could to raise my brother and I and I'm grateful for that. And I wouldn't be who I am today if it wasn't for her.

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 11 points 1 year ago

Being healthy. It really is the foundation for everything and when you are not, it disrupts everything.

[–] loopy@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

I would definitely have to say my wife. She inspires me to be a better person and my life has been exponentially better since I have known her. Don’t get me wrong, the relationship has been a LOT of work. But every ounce is worth it. And I would not have had the chance to be with her without my dad teaching me a solid work ethic. That with my patience/persistence/determination has gotten me to so many better spaces. I’ve definitely learned to highly value those good people around.

الحَمدُ لِلّه

[–] sunbather@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

The knowledge that for as much bad stuff we get up to, humans can accomplish truly mindblowing things. I think about it a lot in the context of science/technology and knowing that much of the tech that I use daily and take for granted is tech that people couldn't even dream of just a couple decades ago. Excited to see what the future has in store on that front.

[–] soullioness@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

My spouse, and child, who make my life feel valid, needed, and loved. Thanks to them and their constant encouragement I have a life worth living. 💜

[–] Thelsim@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

That I have absolutely nothing that seriously worries me.
Of course there's the usual annoyances and minor road bumps in my life. But I have no major family problems (outside of some squabbles, but who doesn't have those?), I'm healthy (enough), I earn enough to get by without having to live from paycheck to paycheck, etc.
When I hear or read about other people's problems, both on large and small scale, it makes me appreciate that my life is just.. boring.
I appreciate it a lot and really hope it will continue this way for both me and my loved ones.

I hope this doesn't sound too selfish. I do feel for those of you who are not as lucky and hope things will get better, whatever your troubles may be.

[–] insurgenRat@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

the smell of frying onions

[–] ThatsTheSpirit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I appreciate experience itself above all. I been through some bs in my time, and have become fairly jaded in the process, but I have learned to appreciate every feeling I get to experience for what it is. Anything past dead is icing for me. Not everyday, but I try.

[–] Quexotic@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

You remind me of something a coworker who nearly died of cancer told me: "every day I wake up above ground is a good one."

Guy's been through so much. He's always been a good guy.

[–] Quexotic@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

The advantages that I've had.

I know that l there will always be challenges and life will never be easy. I also know that it could be so much harder.

Suffering will surely come and there has been suffering that has passed. It creates a bright contrast to what luck I do have.

[–] newtraditionalists@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

My health. I am so unbelievably fortunate to have a baseline of good health. Both physical and mental.