Adderbox76

joined 1 year ago
[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 hours ago

I think these are just the ones who get caught and that there are hundreds more

"I think" is the operative statement there. What you think is pointless. Facts are what matter. And without evidence that it IS the majority doing it, automatically lumping them all into that group makes us no better than them in terms of their rhetoric and divisiveness.

Every damn side needs to stop painting the other with broad strokes and then complaining when they do it back. It's not helpful. Questions that are worded like this are not helpful.

 

Just a super quick question about helping to update the map locations.

Between StreetComplete and Organic Maps, which is faster for submitting recommended changes to the OSM team in regards to things like business hours, etc...

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 21 points 15 hours ago

I'm a guy and I'm in a very customer facing line of work and I don't have that issue at all.

As others have said, maybe it's an age thing (I'm middle aged) or maybe it's a tone thing. If I'm complimenting them, it's usually on something specific; "Oh hey, those are really cool glasses" or "I love what you've done with your hair.", etc...

It's never "You've got pretty hair, lady." or "Gosh yer' beautiful."

The line between platonic comment and creepy sex weirdo (in my mind) is if you're complimenting them on something they actively did that you think is cool (hairstyle, choice of glasses, etc...) it's fine. Complimenting them on features that they have no control over, like saying "Hey, I just wanted to, completely randomly tell you how attractive you are" is creepy.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

She's made very few appearances with him; largely following Melania's lead and staying out of everything as much as possible.

It wouldn't surprise me in the least if the moment they lose the election, she tells him to fuck off and divorces him. Privately she's likely disgusted to find out that her husband is a feckless sycophant who without hesitation would sell out his own family for an attempt at power.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm not entirely clear on what your angle is (or even what you're particularly asking about). But I'll try my best to offer something meaningful.

From what I can gather, you are making the rather common mistake of equating captialism with corporate capitalism/venture capitalism It may seem convenient (and depressing to think of the things as intertwined, but they're really not.

Capitalism is very simple. It's the exchange of goods and services for monetary reward. The harder you work (theoretically) the more you're rewarded. It's only when corporations, venture capitalists and stock prices become involved that that notion begins to become corrupted.

If I make a point to trying to do my grocery shopping at the local grocery store rather than the big chain, that's still capitalism. I'd argue it's more pure capitalism than corporate douchebaggery.

If I have a neighbour who likes to make wooden furniture in his garage and I procure a table and chairs from him instead of going to IKEA. That's still capitalism.

If (as I had all the time growing up) our neighbours kept cows while my family kept chickens, we would purchase beef from them and they would purchase eggs and poultry from us. THAT'S CAPITALISM.

Seeing the reward from your own sweat rather than a corporation seeing the reward from other people's sweat.

I guess in some sort of answer to your question, take back the notion of capitalism from the greedy corporations that have hijacked it. Support your local community. Go to your local farmer's markets. Buy from local artisans and farmers. THAT'S how we reconcile (and fix) capitalism.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)

She's seeing the potential writing on the wall and is attempting to come across as moderate all of a sudden so that when the Republican party purge of MAGA begins, she can hopefully be overlooked by it.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 days ago

Great. Then you shouldn't have any problem coming up with three examples for us all.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The main problem is that some, sometimes most, of immigrants don’t want to assimilate. They are creating ghettos, don’t respect local laws.

Generalisations like this are the very reason it's a polarising issue. Opinions like yours generally derive from "observation" and "gut feeling". Which by definition is completely anecdotal and harmful when it begins to be applied to millions of people all at once.

Betsy from insert town here sees an immigrant couple down the street in her home-town keeping to themselves and not really wanting to take part in the community. She's talking on the phone to nosy-nessie the town busybody who says "oh...you know...my aunt said the same thing about her insert culture neighbours." And then all of a sudden, that's just "how those people are"...all of them...everywhere.

Maybe this couple is just a little embarrassed about their english skills and want to strengthen them more before going into public everywhere, which comes across as shy. Maybe they're just private...who knows. But suddenly...."it's just how (those people) are", becomes the anecdotal "truth".

It's wrong, it's dangerous, and the fact that you don't even grasp the irony of your own comment is telling in a lot of ways.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

They're not properly referred to by that word. They USED to be referred to by that word back when they (falsely) believed that such disorders made them inferior.

Classifying those who were mentally less-developed as "retarded" became the excuse for a world that would try all types of monstrous experiments, ostensibly in an attempt to "heal them" because this was they only way "those people" could be a use to society; as lab rats for things like lobotomies, electro-shock therapy and any other wacky insanity that the early 20th century had dreamed up.

In effect, while "retarded" was once the so-called medical terminology it very quickly became shorthand for an entire group of people that could be dismissed and used because they'd serve no other purpose otherwise.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 days ago

I only found out within the last couple of years that it’s considered a slur

No. It was always a slur. It was still a slur when we were younger, we were just too immature to understand that. It just means that we grew up and learned that it's denigrating and (most of us) stopped using it once we grasped that.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 0 points 4 days ago

It's absolutely a slur. And (IMO) one of the worst ones. Nothing infuriates me more.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 12 points 5 days ago

He was told by Stephen Miller that if he concentrated hard enough, he could kill Harris with his brain. Or poop himself. Whichever came first.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 days ago

Great. How can I stop it from coming?

 

Just immediately reminded me of this gem from a while ago.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3BtmeUhOHU

 

...but its robot designs were well ahead of the curve for the time.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Adderbox76@lemmy.ca to c/jerboa@lemmy.ml
 

Does Jerboa's search function only work for communities or am I don't something wrong?

On the web, as well as other apps, a search brings up the choice between communities, users, comments and posts.

Haven't been able to make that work on Jerboa.

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