I completely understand venting vs wanting solutions...
But sometimes I can't help myself. There are a whole host of things that could cause this. Happy to suggest things to test if you want, or there's an easy way to try an alternative. Have you considered giving Jellyfin a shot?
Around 2/3 of us, yes. The 1/3 who voted red, and the 1/3 who did not vote.
But not all of us.